49 years old•
Kerkwerve, Netherlands
NewportJill
a woman,
looking for a man aged 18-75
About me:
An overview of me: I am a very attractive woman with a great body. I appear "high maintence", since I feel good grooming is very important (good grooming speaks volumes about a person), but when it comes to my personality, I'm independent and don't require attention from people (I also abhor drama), so I am not, at all, a high maintence woman (when it comes to friendships or relationships). I conduct myself with class and decorum at all times (class is an inherent quality, in my opinion - Paris Hilton is a perfect example of "money can't buy class"). I get many compliments from friends that my appearance and clothing are very classy and I look elegant. Unfortunately, many people tend to make snap judgements about beautiful women (that we are unkind and shallow people) and are very suprised that I am so friendly and nice (I am friendly and nice until someone gives me a reason to cease that behavior). I am confident and am poised in even the most awkward of situations. I am a kind, thoughtful, loyal, trustworthy friend and lover. As far as friendships go, I have many acquaintances but I have a rather small circle of "friends" who are true, trustworthy and wonderful people (I decided that anyone who I could not trust and who created drama was someone that is more trouble than they are worth. Some people view this as me being a bit of a loner (as with my last job, since everyone I worked with could not be trusted, gossiped constantly and were always looking for ways to stab me in the back). As I said before, I have no use for that type of people. My real friends KNOW I can be counted on and that I will always be honest with them (they not know to ask my opinion if they don't want my "true" opinion.) People would say I am outgoing, which is accurate. I find it easy to make new friends and to start a conversation with anyone. My friends would also say I am spontaneous and hardly anything shocks them when it comes to me (I could tell them I was moving to Timbuktu and I don't think anyone would be shocked). I am adventerous and some of the best times I have ever experienced were from "adventures". At my old job, I was very respected and liked my co-workers (those who weren't jealous and trying to sabotage my career), my bosses and the poker players (if you can make them happy, then you honestly can deal with anyone and can do things to make them happy). I made it to the top of the WPT circuit within 2 months through making the right connections and having a great deal of skill (I feel a job that is worth doing is worth doing to the best of your ability - and I have had more training than anyone I know). Although many co -workers resented my meteoric rise, the poker players were harder to please. They accept nothing less than perfection and I had to earn their respect, which was not an easy task. However, now I am friendly with most of the notable poker players and they compliment me and will come to my defense if another player is getting out of hang (which happened often). The overview of this is that I am a good worker who takes pride in doing a good job. I also feel that if I don't do my best, I am disappointing myself the most. Earning and socializing with the most notable players in the game was a direct result of my friendly, professional demeanor and my almost perfect job performance. When I retired, many actually begged me not to quit.